Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that …
Words that turn a man on trigger a specific response in him, both physically and emotionally. What matters to most guys is that his sexual prowess is validated. He wants to know that you love what he’s doing and that his masculinity is arousing you. There is an almost universal male archetype of the strong sex-god rock star who is able to magically seduce and satisfy women. Yes, even your brainiac math whiz-type has a fantasy of being THAT guy. When you say these phrases, it’s like you’ve crawled right into his sexual imagination.
Here are a few phrases you can say to him can give him that feeling of sex-god rock star he craves.
You feel so incredible.
Or you can fill in the blank with any kind of adjective there: amazing, big, good, fantastic, hard, huge, awesome. Add in the f-word for a more explicit effect. You get the idea. When you are having intercourse, telling him just how great he feels to you is the ultimate compliment. This validates his prowess and physicality in real-time. And you’ll learn in my program Language of Desire just how much importance most guys place on their penis.
Don’t stop!
It could be any command really: harder, right there, give it to me. Again, feel free to add in curse words and explicit language. Giving him a command during sex to keep doing exactly what he’s doing to you is confident and hot. It’s hot because it shows him just how much you are enjoying it. Men say the number one thing they love during sex is an enthusiastic partner!
I can’t get enough of you OR I’m so turned on by you.
This phrase speaks to his ability to arouse you. That he turns you into a sex-hungry vixen who wants his body all the time. Is that an exaggeration? Sure. But think about how often we unwittingly turn our partners away because we are tired, or have a headache, or just aren’t in the mood. This doesn’t mean you have to be ready to go at it 24/7. However, when you feed his ego that he has the ability to drive you wild with desire you make him feel amazing, especially when you say this phrase outside of the bedroom. The idea that his woman is distracted in the middle of the day by sexy thoughts of him? Rawr.
If you want over 200+ ideas, phrases, and text messages to drive your man wild with desire for you, make sure to check out my new program, Language of Desire. I give you step by step instructions and tons of exact words to use to get exactly what you both want in and out of the bedroom.
WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED?!! WHAT DID YOU MISS?!!
Is it a direct reflection on your level of attractiveness?
Is he ghosting you and just waiting for you to pull the plug?
Is he cheating on you?
If you’ve ever been in this mind-boggling, devastating situation (and I know you have), you need to read this article and watch this special video I’ve put together for you [link] right now.
Why?
Because the truth is, things didn’t really go from 100 to 0 overnight.
Before ghosting, he tried sending non-verbal cues to hint at trouble ahead, but you COMPLETELY missed them.
WHEN A MAN DOES THESE 5 THINGS, IT MEANS HE’S ABOUT TO PULL AWAY FOR GOOD.
These are the non-verbal cues you need to become aware of right away…
1. Too much or too little eye contact
If your partner is making too much or too little eye contact with you, it can be a sign that the relationship is heading in the wrong direction.
Too little eye contact means he is emotionally disconnecting from you…
And, since we all know “looking away” is a sign of disinterest and can be interpreted as rude, an uncomfortable amount of eye contact means he is trying to overcompensate.
2. Biting his lip a lot
One of the most common non-verbal signs that suggest tension and stress is the biting of the lip.
It also says that your partner is holding something back and trying to cover up his true feelings.
3. Closing his eyes during sex
When a man closes his eyes while making love to you, it means he’s not making love to YOU at all.
The fact is, for men what they SEE when they’re having sex is actually MORE important than what they FEEL.
(There have even been studies that show that BLIND men have incredible levels of activity in the visual cortex of their brains when sexually turned on.)
And what that means is that when a man closes his eyes during sex with you, he’s not “focusing on how amazing you feel” . . .
He’s bringing up pictures in his mind of other women . . . of his secret fantasies he’s afraid to tell you.
4. He is physically far away from you
Remember the inebriating closeness at the very beginning? You were stuck like glue and couldn’t resist spending a second without touching each other.
Positioning himself away from you and keeping a ‘safe’ amount of distance between the two of you is a dangerous sign of “dislike.”
5. He is always on his cell phone
Nowadays, it’s completely normal, and expected, to check your phone every now and again, but this can become a serious issue if you notice that your partner is staring at a screen all day (even when you are talking to him).
If he is always looking at Facebook, YouTube, or Instagram – he might be trying to evade the reality of your relationship by focusing all of his attention on the people “living” inside his phone.
HOW MANY OF THESE WARNING SIGNS IS YOUR PARTNER SENDING OUT AND YOU ARE CHOOSING TO IGNORE?
Because let’s get real for a second…
You reading this today probably means that even though things with him seem to be going great, deep inside, you fear that he’ll eventually bail on you and leave you heartbroken feeling like an idiot (just like every other past relationship).
But before you panic and start blaming yourself for “pushing him away”…
Let me tell you that THESE signs are the best thing that could have happened to you and your relationship.
Why?
Because the fact that he’s sending out those subconscious cues means, without a doubt, that he genuinely cares about you and he meant all the things about having a future together.
Think about it…
He could’ve walked out the door already, but instead, he is subconsciously choosing to let you know that something’s wrong and he is giving you the chance to fix it.
This is his attempt to save the relationship and make that happily-ever-after a reality for the both of you.
(Bit lame, sure. But that’s how the romantic psychology of men works).
Okay, that’s FANTASTIC news, right? But a few questions still stand…
“Why did he start sending those warning cues in the first place?
What went wrong in the relationship?
And how can you “wake him back up” to you as the woman of his dreams and make your connection boil 1000x hotter than the day you met?
In this video presentation I put together for you [link], I show you an example of a terrible intimacy mistake 90% of women make without even knowing it that turns men off and shoves them far, far away, no matter how much they crave staying close to you…
And EXACTLY what to do when a man pulls away to turn things around and make him worship you the way you’ve dreamed of since you were a little girl.
Regardless of whether he’s already pulled away and you haven’t heard from him in weeks (or even months!)…
Or if you are still seeing each other but you’ve realized he’s sending out some of the warning signs above…
He can still be your ONE (read that again!).
Yes, he can still be the man who’s always “present,” who loves you so profoundly, intensely, and passionately that you forget your own name, who’s proud of you and shows you off to his friends…
And the man who’ll never look at another woman ever again.
That can be your dream-like reality when you choose to stop being naive and discover the truth about men.
If you’ve ever felt a man pull away, lose interest
or suddenly stop chasing or seducing you and didn’t
know why or what to do. . .
Or if you feel like you never get what *you* need
in bed from any guy you date, then you must watch
this eye-opening – life changing video right now. . .
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